Funeral arrangements
Thank you for considering an RAF Benevolent Fund collection at your loved one’s funeral or memorial service. This is such a special way to commemorate the life of someone incredibly special to you. We can help you with both online and in person memorial collections and have provided some popular service readings which you may find suitable for your loved ones service.
Organising a collection
For many families, it is easiest to collect funeral and memorial service donations online. An RAF Benevolent Fund Tribute Fund can be shared with friends and family so they can leave donations at any time. They can light candles and add memories and photos, making your loved one's page a permanent memorial, which you can revisit in the future. Your funeral director may be able to help you set up a Tribute Fund for RAF Benevolent Fund, either on our own website or through another provider such as Muchloved.
The funeral director may offer to organise the collection on your behalf, and more are now using online collection platforms as above to do this. Another useful option is to print our web address rafbf.org/donate – on the order of service. Family and friends can donate online and mention your loved one when making the donation. We are then able to track all donations in your loved one's name. We would recommend you contact us beforehand if you would like to track these donations.
How to pay in your Donation
Simply follow the Online Donation process and choose the amount you want to donate; after, please select the box: 'I want to donate in memory of someone'.
You will then be asked for some more details about you and your loved one. If you would like us to write to the family or next of kin, please ask and we will be happy to do so.
Help us claim Gift Aid as it means your donation could be worth around 25% more to us, at no extra cost to you. Please fill in our Gift Aid declaration online form so we can reclaim the tax on your donations.
Please send cheques payable to
FREEPOST Remembering Someone Special
RAF Benevolent Fund
67 Portland Place, London, W1B 1AR
Please include a short covering letter with your name and address and the details of the person you are remembering. If you would like us to write to the family or next of kin, please ask and we will be happy to do so.
Please call 020 7580 8343 and have your credit or debit card details available
Special readings and prayers
If you'd like to include a reading, poem or prayer associated with the RAF, please download our free PDF for some suggestions. Please feel free to copy and paste your selections into the order of service.
If you are planning a funeral for someone who served in the RAF and you would like to honour their service in the ceremony, here's a few things you should know:
- The Royal Air Force Ensign is only flown at an operational station and is not allowed to be used to drape a coffin. You can, however, use a Union Flag as a coffin drape.
- The RAF Badge symbol is only to be used on a headstone for serving personnel where the government is responsible for the maintenance of the stone.
- Unfortunately, we are unable to provide a guard of honour. However, a request can be made by the family for a Royal Air Force representative through their local station Warrant Officer who will do their best to arrange one where circumstances allow.
There is never an easy way to deal with the loss of a loved one. If you need any specialist help or advice, you may find the following links useful:
Cruse Bereavement Care: www.cruse.org.uk. Samaritans: www.samaritans.org.
If you are a member of the RAF Family we may be able to help you with counselling.